Personalized, Science-Based Sex Education for Adults

Most of us never got the sex education we actually needed. What we learned in school (if we learned anything at all) was often incomplete, shame-based, or focused solely on preventing pregnancy and STIs.

You deserve accurate information about pleasure, desire, and how your body actually works.

These one-on-one education sessions offer clear, pleasure-inclusive, science-based information tailored to your questions and curiosities. Whether you're exploring kink, trying to understand desire, curious about sex toys, or want to know how arousal and orgasm work, we'll focus on what matters most to you.

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Who Is This For?

Specialized sexuality education sessions are for anyone who wants to:

• Understand their body better — How arousal works, what impacts desire, how different bodies experience pleasure

• Explore new territory — Information about kink/BDSM basics, consensual non-monogamy, different types of sex toys and how to use them

• Get practical  — Information to navigate pleasure during physical changes, adapting sexual practices, trying new things safely

• Fill in the gaps — Learn what you wish someone had taught you years ago

• Support a partner — Understanding a partner's sexual identity, needs, or interests

• Prepare for a conversation — Getting ready to talk with a partner about desires, boundaries, or changes

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This is education, not therapy. While we may touch on personal experiences, the focus is on information-sharing and skill-building rather than processing emotions or trauma.

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What We Cover

Sessions are entirely customized to your questions and goals. Here are some common topics:

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Understanding Your Body

• How arousal and desire actually work (spoiler: it's not always spontaneous)

• The sexual response cycle and why it matters

• Anatomy beyond the basics — erectile tissue, pelvic floor, pleasure-focused anatomy

• How medications, hormones, and health conditions impact sexual function

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Pleasure & Technique

• Orgasm: types, myths, and what to know

• Self-pleasure techniques and why they matter for partnered sex

• How to explore sensation and discover what feels good

• Communication skills for sexual conversations

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Sex Toys & Tools

• Navigating the overwhelming world of sex toys

• Which toys work for different bodies and goals

• How to use adaptive devices for accessibility or medical changes

• Safer sex with toys

• Proper cleaning, and storage

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Kink, BDSM & Alternative Practices

• Intro to kink: terms, practices, and principles

• Consent, negotiation, and boundary-setting

• Safety considerations for different types of play

• Resources for continued learning and community

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Relationship Structures

• Consensual non-monogamy basics: ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, open relationships

• Communication frameworks for multiple partners

• Jealousy, compersion, and navigating emotions

• Setting agreements and boundaries

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Gender & Sexuality

• Understanding sexual orientation and gender identity as distinct but linked

• Supporting a partner through transition or exploration

• How gender impacts sexual experiences and expression

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Navigating Changes

• Sex during and after pregnancy

• Adapting to chronic illness or disability

• Sexual health through aging and menopause

• Post-surgical sexuality (including gender-affirming surgeries, cancer treatment, etc.)

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Don't see your topic listed? Ask anyway. If it relates to sexuality, bodies, or relationships, If I can't address it, I might know somebody else would does!

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What to Expect

Session Format

• Intake sessions are 60 minutes, one-on-one

• Virtual (video) or in-person options available

• Fully confidential and non-judgmental

• Follow-up sessions are 30 mins and address ongoing questions

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What Happens in a Session

1. You share your questions or goals — What are you curious about? What do you want to understand better?

2. We explore the topics together — I'll provide information, answer questions, clarify misconceptions, and offer resources

3. You leave with actionable knowledge — Personalized recommendations, resource lists, worksheets, or readings specific to your interests

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What You'll Receive

• Evidence-based information presented in clear, accessible language

• Personalized resource lists (books, websites, community resources)

• Visual aids or handouts when relevant

• Follow-up materials via email

• Space to ask "awkward" questions without judgment

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Why Personalized Education?

Google Can't Do This

The internet is full of contradictory, moralistic, or just plain wrong information about sex. Search results are dominated by porn (which isn't education), clickbait articles, and advice that doesn't account for different bodies, identities, or circumstances.

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With personalized education, you get:

• Information tailored to YOUR body, situation, and questions

• A chance to ask follow-up questions and clarify confusion

• Guidance from someone with clinical training and real-world experience

• A non-judgmental space to explore topics that feel vulnerable

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When Education Works Better Than Therapy

Sometimes what you need isn't emotional processing—it's just information. Sexuality education is ideal when:

• You're curious and want to learn, not work through distress

• You need practical guidance or skills

• You want to make informed decisions about your body or relationships

• You're preparing for a new experience or transition

• You want a one-time consultation rather than ongoing therapy

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Common Questions

Is this confidential?
Absolutely. Everything discussed in your session stays between us, just like therapy.

What if my questions feel embarrassing?
I've worked in sexual health for 17 years and have deep experience in pleasure education, kink communities, and gender-diverse care. Trust me—I've heard it all, and there's nothing you could ask that would surprise or judge you.

Can I bring a partner?
Yes! You are free to use the space relationally if you'd like to learn together.

Do I need multiple sessions?
Many people find one session covers what they need, but you're welcome to schedule additional sessions for different topics, or for follow up conversations to continue supporting your learning and growth journey

Will you recommend specific products?
When appropriate, yes. I have extensive knowledge of sex toys and adaptive devices and can offer specific recommendations based on your needs and budget. I don't receive commissions—my recommendations are based solely on what works.

What if I'm not sure what I want to learn?
That's fine! We can start with "I'm curious about X but don't know where to start" and I'll help guide the conversation.

Investment

60-minute individual session: Sliding scale $35–$250 based on income
(See full fee structure here)

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Ready to Learn?

Book a free 15-minute consultation to discuss what you're curious about and whether sexuality education is the right fit.

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